Monday, November 10, 2014

It Doesn't Affect You




          This sign is just one of the many you can find when you Google "anti gay signs". Included in the multitude of signs is quotes such as "God hates fags" and "Homosexuality is a sin". First of all, I would like to see the data behind these signs. Secondly, why should their opinion mean anything to the rest of the world. In my previous blog, I commented on the topic of how people have opinions and comments on things that do not remotely involve them. Again, I urge homophobics and racists around the world to question themselves as to why they care.
 

           Although I can not say from personal experience, there must be homosexuals all around the world. In other words, homosexuality is not a creation of certain societies. Although, it is argued that the way a person is raised can cause homosexuality. Many think that an overly nurturing mother can create a gay son, especially with an absent father. Also, an overly involved father with an absent mother can create a lesbian daughter. Yet, this is not true in all cases. For example, my aunt is an extremely nurturing individual and her husband, a pilot for UPS, will be gone for weeks at a time. They have two sons, who they conceived, who are heterosexuals. This is only one example, but one example is all it takes to reject a hypothesis.
          Before writing this blog, I have read several articles which talk about homosexuality around the world. One article I read, at Life Under Russia's 'Gay Propaganda' Ban, which discusses the life of a woman and her girlfriend in Russia. The article depicted that Russia is extremely judgmental and harsh towards those who are homosexual. They even passed a law which forbids even discussing the topic of homosexuality in front of children. This is absurd. Everyone should be open and not hide the idea of loving someone of the same sex. I can only assume that the idea behind this policy is to deter children from becoming homosexual. Yet studies show that homosexuality is because of genes or how a child is raised, not from knowledge of homosexuality.


        Pictured above is a slave from pre-1865 where a slave shows his scars from being whipped. Today, homosexuals in Nigeria could also reveal similar scars. The thought of this alone sickens me. The thought that someone is being physically abused to such an extent because of something they have no control over is utterly sick and demented. On the website Nigeria Tries to 'Sanitize' Itself of Gays, you can read about the horrible acts performed by Nigeria in order to "cleanse" themselves of homosexuals. Why would anyone want to have another tragedy such as the Nazi's. Personally, I found diversity to make our world so much more interesting and exciting. If everyone were the same, life would not be near as fun as it is now.


          Matthew Shepard was one of the most nationwide known cases of homosexual discrimination. This 22 year old boy was beaten close to death and left to die tied to fence just because he was gay. Matthew did not have a choice in being gay, nor was it something for him to be punished for. Not only was he punished, but Matthew lost his life. The boys who performed this horrific act had no involvement in Matthew's life, much less the fact that he was gay. You can read more about Matthew's life and the horrible tragedy in which he lost his life at Matthew Shepard. There are several more cases where homosexuals have lost their life or have been beaten for the mere fact that they were gay. And for what? Because they are different than those performing the vicious acts.


         On the show, Law and Order: Special Victims Unit, there is an episode which shows the discrimination against homosexuals. In this particular episode, the detectives receive a case where a lesbian woman is found beaten severely. When the detectives discover who beat the woman, it is revealed that a man who is extremely against homosexuals was behind the crime. The fact that television is now showing crimes again homosexuals is proof that it is a growing problem.
         Discrimination against homosexuals is more prevalent than many believe. Just because the city you live in has not significant discrimination does not mean that others around the world are being killed and severely beaten for the fact that they are homosexuals. The fact that they are who they are, and they can not change that. There is no difference between those who are homosexual and those who are heterosexual other than the gender of those who they love. Diversity is what keeps life interesting. Why would we want to change that? So I ask you, why do you care if someone is gay, black, poor or mentally challenged? Does it affect you?

2 comments:

  1. Homosexual discrimination is terrible and it is hard to believe that some countries kill people for something they do not have control over. I am curious to how some countries not mentioned handle homosexuality. Do third world countries also kill for being gay or do they not really care who loves who? You are completely right, it does not affect anyone except those in the relationship.

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  2. I wasn't familiar with the Matthew Shepard case. It is unfortunate that here in the US where one would think we are more open to being different, that these kinds of things still happen. You are right in that it isn't our business, and as long as they love each other and respect each other, who are we to say they can't live together and love each other? And as long as any children are being well taken care of, what does it matter if they have two Moms or a Mom & Dad...

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